This will be my last post here. Due to the recent change in lj's user agreement i feel that it is no longer safe for me to post. Maybe i am overreacting...russia is far away and i am just a fluffy fannish lesbian in nj...but with the direction the country is going in i would just feel better in a safer space.
I will leave this up for a bit before deleting it. And if anyone is still out there, i will be on dreamwidth under the same name. Hopefully i will find the time to post more over there than i have here lately.
Good-bye lj. It was good while it lasted. Thank you all for coming.
Once again I have no idea how to start things, so I'll just jump right in.
First off - thank you and massive squishy hugs to everyone who offered sympathy, encouraging words and support after my last update. You don't know how much it helped knowing all of you are out there and I love all of you so much you have no idea. So thank you.
Things here are...okay. I'm not skipping giddily through the tulips, but I'm also not curled up in a corner whimpering pathetically, either. Aside from a call and a few emails from the two sisters who used to give me rides home from work, no one from my former job has contacted me and I have honestly not contacted any of them. At this point, I hope I never see any of them ever again and that they all die in a fire. And if that makes me sound bitter, well...I am and I will probably be for some time to come.
I'm taking the time off I have now to pull together and update my resume, continue to get my health under control and regroup. I am getting severance and unemployment, plus doing ebay to keep busy, so money-wise things are okay for now. It helps that I no longer have to shell out the considerable amount of money every week in order to get to my job ($50 a month for a pass plus $20 a week for train/busfare) and that I filed for bankruptcy last year. I would be in so much more trouble now if I hadn't done that. But right now I have a bit in savings and a bunch of things to put up on ebay to sell if things get tight, so on that front, things are okay.
Health wise things are also getting better. I am now under 200 pounds for the first time in I don't know how long and hardly anything in my closet fits me anymore. Which - considering all I've been wearing lately is jeans and t-shirts, isn't a great hardship. I haven't been walking as much as I was, but that is partly because it's been disgustingly hot here. But I am watching my diet still (It's been an effort not to dive right into a pint of Ben & Jerry's but so far I have resisted) and all of my blood tests lately have come back good. So while the weight loss is still agonizingly slow, I am still losing and things on that front are getting easier. Although I still miss things like bacon and pizza and anything fried.
Other than that I have been trying to keep busy. Ebay listings, comfort reading (a lot of fanfic, especially Bast & Sekhmet's Jim & Jason absolutely fabulous series of books - thank you, darlings! *HUGS*) and comfort movies & TV (older historicals, Bogart, Grant and Hepburn. Season 1 part 2 of CSI Miami) I'm looking forward to seeing the Shinys in October. I've gone thru my summer closet and Mom got everything that doesn't fit for her to sell on ebay and I went thru her stock to find some nicer things (Hawaiian shirts and such) that fit me for now. And I've been helping her out with shopping and her garden.
So for now, things are okay. And considering everything that's happened over the past six months, that's bordering on a miracle.
Things can only get better from here on out. And they will - that I can promise you.
I got laid off today.
Over 21 years at my job - and I'm done.
They're paying me thru to the end of the week. I get 10 weeks severance and my insurance is okay until the end of August. I can file for unemployment Friday at 5pm.
I just - I was blindsided. No one had any inkling this was coming and I wasn't the only one let go. (I was one of 10 people) It's just - I thought with everything (my years there, being the only clerk left, etc) I thought I'd be safe. I should have known better.
*sigh* I'll be okay. I'm just having a hard time processing this right now.
And while I'm here pestering the universe, I'd like to thank everyone for all their kind words, their support and the virtual hugs I recieved after my announcement (such as it was) in March. You don't know how much it helped knowing you were all thinking of me. So thank you.
Things have been fairly calm here lately - work has been quiet with very little drama. My doctors are pleased with my improvement with things such as they are - with the medication I'm on my diabetes is officially considered under control and my numbers have been normal with no major spikes since I got out of the hospital. Everything else is also approaching normal, I've started walking for excersize (around my work building at lunch and getting off at further away bus stops) and so far I've lost 12 pounds. The weight loss has been slow - I'm on a lot of medication and it's slowing things down, so even thought I'm on a restrictive diet (low salt, no sugar, low fat, low carb) the pounds aren't coming off as fast as I would like. But I am seeing a difference - I'm having a hard time finding clothes in my closet that fit already.
Which pisses me off a little - because the t-shirts I like the most (my mountain fairy shirts, a lot of my fannish & wrestling shirts) are now far too big for me to wear. So I'm pissed for a good reason, but it's still annoying and I've already made a list of the ones I want to replace when my weight has gotten down to what the doctor wants. (for the record, he wants me to lose at least 50 - 60 pounds)
My depression has also gotten a little better - I'm not bursting into tears every seven seconds anymore, which is a plus. (My GP upped my Paxil - and while I still have lows on the rollercoaster, they haven't been as low or as frequent) This weekend has been particularly hard since the Shinys are at MWC in Michigan and I'm home. I know why I had to cancel, but that doesn't mean I have to like it - which was another reason I wanted to get out of the house today.
But I am looking forward to seeing them in October and I'm looking forward to going to Philadelphia ComicCon with my sister next weekend and I'm looking forward to seeing Much Ado About Nothing (Clark Gregg) and I'm going to try and see Iron Man 3 and Great Gatsby as well (we'll see how well I do) Nothing else I saw trailers for really grabbed me enough to want to go see, but we'll see. Also looking forward to JW's Agents Of Shield and Sherlock S3in the fall.
I also caught the season finales of NCIS, NCIS LA, Once Upon A Time, Supernatural, Arrow and Doctor Who. Doctor Who made no sense to me at all - I like Clara but I have no clue where they're going with this, but it was fun catching all the references for the other doctors thru the season. I missed all of NCIS & NCIS LA all season, so watching the finales didn't make a lot of sense but they made me want to start watching them both again in Sept. Arrtow & Supernatural I watch for the eye candy (Mark Sheppard & John Barrowman) so I honestly didn't care if they didn't make any sense to me :) And I only watched Once Upon A Time to see the Shield promo, but it caught me enough so I might give it a try in Sept.
And thanks to my sister I'm watching Game Of Thrones - which I find very brutal but good. I'm also working my way through the books, which are veryvery long but veryvery good. Seriously - if you're into epics with casts of thousands, these are really good. Writing-wise I haven't made much progress, but I am scribbling fragmented notes for a Clint/Coulson novella and I'm still planning a story collection for some point in the future whenever my muse decides to stop being lazy *pokes muse*
So I'm doing okay - things are getting better on many levels. And hopefully they will from now on. :)
So - because I didn't feel like cleaning or doing laundry or anything even remotely adult, I went to the movies. Was planning on seeing Iron Man until I saw the schedule (both movie & bus) so I went to see Star Trek Into Darkness instead.
And it blew my mind. Absolutely wonderful. I was spoiled for some key elements (who John Harrison was, what happened to Pike) but the rest of it, I didn't see coming. (Okay, so I'm dense) It had a lot of little funny bits and a couple gut wrenching ones and was completely amazing. I flailed and laughed and it made me cry a little. Everything I could have hoped for in a sequel and everyone was stunning in it. Just perfect.
Well - almost. Needed more Bones/Kirk interaction, but the look on McCoy's face while he looked down at Kirk almost made up for it.
I didn't look at my watch once and I would go see it again. Definitely.
And then I went for lunch at Applebees. All in all a nice day.
Tomorrow Mom & I are going to the thrift store and I have to do laundry and clean (what I was going to do today) And tonight I'm planning on listing on ebay. Next week I'm going with my sister and her family to Philadelphia's Comicon for a day - she's going for Walking Dead, I'm going for John Barrowman. It should be a blast - my sister has never been to any type of con before.
Since I'll probably be in bed for the new year (real party zone here. folks :) I'd like to wish my LJ friends a happy, safe and prosperous new year. May 2013 be better for all of us on every level imaginable.
*SQUISHY HUGS ALL*
And see how well I do :)
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